Personality Isn’t Permanent, Breaking Free From Self-Limiting Beliefs with Dr. Benjamin Hardy

Episode: 021

In this episode for Maximum Advisor Podcast, Chip Munn sits down with psychologist and author, Dr. Benjamin Hardy, to discuss his latest book Personality Isn't Permanent, and his previous best-seller, Willpower Doesn't Work.


Dr. Hardy discusses with Chip how his past experiences and trauma laid the foundation for his book and how these events played a large part in creating his views on how an individual has the ability to change how they perceive both past and current events. Dr. Hardy explains that while personality tests such as the StrengthsFinder, Color Code, or the Kolbe A™ Index can provide valuable information, they can also cause a harmful fixation on a single score. He believes that the scores from these assessments will change over time as an individual's personality does, and allowing the results to hold too much impact can create a fixed mindset instead of one that fosters growth and change. 


Chip and Dr. Hardy explore how financial advisors can utilize this insight to help their clients avoid fixating on their labels and scores. Advisors are then able to encourage a more comprehensive vision for the future. Without considering that limiting label or score, how does that client see themselves in the next year, two years, or even further in the future? This exercise can be used to encourage or direct either personal or professional growth. Dr. Hardy reflects on how crucial a financial professional has been for him personally, allowing him an alternative perspective that sometimes even his current self may be unable to see. 


Looking to the past can have both distinct benefits and drawbacks. Dr. Hardy warns that your current seld is often a compilation of or built upon past events. Any individual can choose the meaning that you assign to any event, positive or negative, that you experience. Maintaining a growth mindset is essential as it provides tools and coping skills that can be utilized to reframe an event or circumstance.  


Chip and Dr. Hardy agree that our past habits can be used as a map for identifying patterns of mismanaged funds as financial advisors. Dr. Hardy begs the question, "If you want to achieve financial abundance, how would your current self change what you did in the past?" 

 

Listen in as Chip and Dr. Hardy explore and dive into important topics such as:

 

  • Why journaling can be one of the most impactful steps you take to redefining your future. 
  • How honesty plays a role in changing your environment and keeping yourself accountable to your goals and end result. 
  • How trauma can be used to your advantage 

 

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Dr. Benjamin Hardy

Benjamin Hardy, PhD

Organizational Psychologist
Bestselling Author


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Dr. Benjamin Hardy is an organizational psychologist and the bestselling author of Willpower Doesn't Work and his newest title, Personality Isn't Permanent. He received his Doctorate of Philosophy (Ph.D), in Industrial and Organizational Psychology from Clemson University. His written articles have been read by over 100 million people and are featured on Forbes, Fortune, Fast Company, Business Insider, Huffington Post, and many others.

From 2015-2018, Dr. Hardy was the #1 writer in the world on Medium.com where he grew a considerable platform and remains a regular contributor to Inc. and Psychology Today.

He and his wife Lauren live in Orlando, Florida with their 5 children. Explore Dr. Hardy's writing, learn more about him, or order one of his books by visiting Benjaminhardy.com